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What Strong Families Have in Common Part 5

2011-11-24T08:38:00.001-08:00

What Strong Families Have in Common Part 5

Strong Families Have a Strong Sense of Our Lord
There’s no way to have a truly successful family w/out giving God first place. And we have to convey it to our children. Kids watch carefully…what we’re like at church, and at home.

A study once disclosed that if both Mom and Dad attend church regularly, 72% of their children remain faithful. If only Dad, 55% remain faithful. If only Mom, 15%. If neither attended regularly, only 6% remain faithful. The statistics speak for themselves--the example of parents and adults is more important than all the efforts of the church and Sunday school.

A little boy was staying overnight in backyard in a tent. His his day had listened to them talk… “My daddy knows the mayor!”/ “governor!”/ the first boy said, then he heard the voice of his own little boy say,

“that’s nothing’, my daddy knows God!” (Top that!) The other boys said, he does not! “Does too!”

How do you know? “I heard him talking’ to him just this morning!

There’s nothing greater our children can think of then that we know God.

Joshua 24:15
But if serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.

Happy Thanksgiving 2011

What Strong Families Have in Common 4

2011-11-23T07:54:00.000-08:00

Strong Families Have Good Coping Skills.

They have the rare ability to solve problems together, and always see the big picture. Don’t ever think that families that break up had problems, and that families who stay together don’t. Divorces and dysfunctional families have very little to do with problems. All families have problems.

Break-ups have to do with coping skills.
I bet there are people who’ve been married 30 years or more, and they’ve had problems far worse than a lot of people who’ve divorced. The difference is in coping skills…working thru the problems.
Every family has problems. If divorces were caused by problems, we’d all be divorced. My family has problems, your family has them. Christian families have them, Even Adam and Eve had problems…

--Adam would come home from work, and she would start counting his ribs…just checking! (haha)

They had their problems together, and even suffered the consequences together (driven out of the garden)

Adam and the kids would walk by the garden…and the kids would say, what’s that, dad? “That’s where your mother ate us out of house and home!" (haha)

Not all families respond to problems in the same way. The Chinese language does not have letters, it has symbols. And the same symbol which means crisis, can also mean opportunity, depending upon the context.
And you know, one family can have a problem and see it as a crisis, and another family have exactly the same problem, and see it as an opportunity.

Someone said, God’s best presents He gives to His children are wrapped in problems. The bigger the problem, the bigger the present…if you’re willing to unwrap it!
How we respond to our problems will make or break us! We’ve got to learn to attack our problems together, instead of attacking each other.

So far we seen that strong families have commitment, communion, communication, coping skills, and…

Joshua 24:15
But if serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.

What Strong Families Have in Common Part 3

2011-11-22T07:25:00.000-08:00

Strong Families Have Good Communication

This applies to the marriage relationship as well as parent/child relationship.
Sort of like this…A child comes home from college, the dad says, how’s college? “Good”, How are your grades? “Good” How’s your friends? /food? /dorm life?
By the way, what are you majoring in? “Communications”
Unfortunately, he learned his communication skills at home, where his mom asked his dad lots of questions like that, but she received them, with the same kind of monotone, one-word replies.

Strong families are held together by good communication. Communication is discussing the burdens of your heart…opening the windows of your soul at times, sharing your feelings. Not disrespecting or being overbearing in the conversation.
Ephesians 4:29 says:
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.

Zig Ziglar tells the story of a lady who went to her Minister, because she wanted a divorce from her husband.
“Do you have any grounds?” The Minister asked…3 acres outside of town, you’ve been there!
“No, I mean, do you have a grudge?”…no, a carport
“No, like, does your husband beat you up?”…no, I’m up at 6, an hour before him!
“Oh my, I’m saying, do you have a case?”…no, we’ve got a John Deere!
“Ma’am, I’m trying to ask, are you and your husband having a troubles?”…oh yes, lots of troubles… “Like what?”…He just can’t communicate!

Marriage counselors say over half of all divorces are the result of poor communication, and that if they could have just learned to talk, they could have saved their marriage.

Here are the 7 “B’s” of good listening:
1.Be Observant.
You listen with your eyes as much as your ears…look at them, show them you’re listening.
Albert Moravian of UCLA is a noted researcher in communication. He said that only 7% of our true feelings are conveyed by the actual words we speak. 38% by the way we say those words. And a whopping 55% is conveyed thru body language…non-verbal communication:
Facial expression, eye contact, posture, and tone of voice.

2. Be Available.
Communication is like fishing…it doesn’t do much good to go when it’s convenient, to catch fish, you have to go when they’re biting.
This is especially true with teens, I’m told (and have experience)…when teens really want to talk, which I’m told and again, (have experienced) is quite rare, you’d better be available. It might be at midnight when they get in from that youth activity, but you’d better do it then…they won’t resemble the same person in the morning!
It might be during your favorite TV program…better turn it off and listen. Some of Brady’s and mine best conversations are on our way home from Wednesday night Bible study, or at Gold Star Chili.

3. Be Considerate.
It’s amazing how considerate we are to others out in public, but how rude we can be to our own family members. If we interrupted at work like we do at home, we’d be sent home permanently! Or walk away from them while talking, or ignore. We can’t take each other for granted.

4. Be Demonstrative.
We’re talking physical…hugs, kisses, pats, massages, etc. Use them often. Gary Smalley says women need non-sexual touch…little things, not groping like a piece of meat. He says women need 8 of these touches per day. (Some of you guys will wake up tomorrow and go 12345678…) It doesn’t work that way.

5. Be Wise.
Learn to attack the problem, not the person. Ladies: nagging is not communicating! (Not one man said Amen, bunch of cowards! Don’t leave me hanging’ here!) Bringing up past offenses is not wise! (Joke—guy says, every time my wife and I fight she gets historical. “You mean hysterical?” No, historical…she brings back everything I’ve ever done since we got married.) And before I get into too much trouble…Men, sarcasm will get you nowhere! (And my wife says, Amen!)
6. Be An Example.
Parents, it’s a cold hard fact…I hope you’re not 90 before you realize that we don’t get what we want, we get what we ARE!
Percentage of American teens who say they want to be like their parents: 39%.

Children who see physical violence between their parents are six times more likely to abuse their own spouses after they marry. If those children were also hit by their parents as teenagers, they are 12 times more likely to abuse their spouses.

7. Be Courageous.
The main reason we don’t communicate is fear…we’re simply afraid of what we might hear! We’re afraid to make ourselves vulnerable, so instead, just blurt out how it’s going to be, like it or lump it!

So, strong families have a strong sense of commitment. They have communion…spending time together. They have good communication, and express themselves well.

Joshua 24:15
But if serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.

What Strong Families Have in Common Part 2

2011-11-21T13:44:00.000-08:00

Strong Families Have Communion

In a survey, 1,500 children were asked, what makes families happy?
Over 90% gave the same answer. It wasn’t a big house or lots of money…it was “doing things together”.

Are we talking quality time or quantity time? Both!
One of the biggest false bills of goods we’re being sold these days is that it doesn’t matter how much time you spend, just make it quality time! Yes, it does matter.
Time together is how you get to know each other, really know each other in a deep way, where you can eventually see right into their heart just by looking into their eyes, and where you can tell when they’re lying right away!

Is your child shy or confident? Are they a leader or follower? What are their interests? What do they want to be someday? Who is their best friend, and why are they their best friend?
Some of you draw a blank at some of those questions, and the reason is how busy we are these days…we’re not spending enough time together.
Children spell love TIME / Men, you can say “love”, or you can demonstrate love by spending time w/ your wife.

Time with family says to them, you are a priority, I love you!
There’s no substitute for time spent together. You can’t neglect them for months and then make up for it by taking them to Disneyworld, or buying them something they really want.
Take time to do the simple but meaningful things together:
Shoot baskets, or rake leaves. You can read a book, or take them along on that errand to Wal-Mart!
But I know what you are thinking or maybe saying, They’ll just slow me down. Yes! And that’s what we need, to slow down, and experience life together!

Deuteronomy 11:18-21 says - Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates, so that your days and the days of your children may be many in the land that the LORD swore to give your forefathers, as many as the days that the heavens are above the earth.

What Strong Families Have in Common Part 1

2011-11-20T21:19:00.000-08:00

1. Strong Sense Of Commitment

Seems obvious, right? But over the last decade, I’ve counseled w/ dozens of couples…pre-marital and post-marital counseling, and it’s proven to me that people today don’t understand commitment. What a relaxed attitude people have as they enter into the holiest of unions these days of the disposable marriage. “If it works, fine, if it doesn’t, fine.”

Commitment is the assurance that this family will stay together, value each other, for a lifetime, no matter what. Whatever problems we face, we face them together. Strong marriages take the following words, and carve them in granite: I’m committed to you, no matter what. And they take the word divorce out of their vocabulary.

Parents, there’s 2 ways you can convey the sense of commitment to a child: [Of course, when we learn it!]

1. By conveying to them that they are a blessing, not a burden. This generation of children has been labeled, the unwanted generation. TV today sends the message that children are an unwanted expense, and interference in careers, or an untimely accident. There are no mistakes, accidents, or surprises with God. The abortionist claims there’s a clear difference between an unborn child, and one that’s been born…try explaining that to a child that is looking for relevance!

A good illustration of this would be the child that is the last one picked for a ball team…who has to take him? I had him last time! Can you just see that child standing there in right field thinking, I’m here because they’re stuck with me.

This suicide note from a young girl named Jennifer age 15; from West Virginia was found just 3 days ago
Dear mom, I’m sorry I was ever born. It seems to me that I’ve ruined your happiness. I’ve chosen this way out so that you can be happy again.
(chances are, this girl was genuinely loved and wanted, but somehow they failed to communicate it to her!)

2. By letting them know they are loved unconditionally. We live in an achievement oriented society. Where significance equals performance and importance equals ability, and where self-worth equals achievement. I am sorry to say, this mindset has crept into many homes.
Parents, do your kids know that there’s nothing they can do to be more loved, because they’re already loved with a measureless love? Nothing they can do to be more accepted, because they’re already totally accepted? Nothing they can do to be more valued, because they’re already infinitely valued?

Nothing will alienate a child more than making them work for something that should be given freely…love, acceptance, and self-worth.

If you raise a child on conditional love, to some degree, always feeling like they have to do something to make you proud of them, you will almost always wind up with 1 of 2 results when they’re grown:

1. Workaholic who never feels adequate, but quite self-conscious.
2. A quitter, who just gives up all-together. “I can’t please dad or mom, so I’ve decided not to even try.”
But you may ask, Lonnie:
“Aren’t I supposed to motivate my child?” Yes you are.
“Aren’t I supposed to encourage them on to excellence?” Yes are.
“Don’t I want them to reach their full potential?” Yes you do.

The key is: What are you using to motivate them?
Never motivate on the basis of love and acceptance. This, they must be given freely.
Never motivate on how they compare to others… “Johnny can do it, why can’t you…try harder!”

Motivate on the basis of what THEIR best is.
Did you know you can be proud of your child, even if you’re displeased with them? You can show them love and acceptance, even when you’re disgusted with their attitude…even if they embarrass you out in public!

I’m convinced that some people who claim to be motivating their child for the child’s sake are actually doing it for their own sake… “So I’m not embarrassed, so I can be proud of you, so no one thinks less of you because they would then think less of me!” A parent like that was no doubt raised that way themselves.
Hey, it’s time to break the cycle!

Ask yourself now: Do my children know they are a blessing, not a burden?
Do they know they’re loved unconditionally, and there’s nothing they can do to make me love them more?

That’s commitment. It’s the first thing strong families have in common. Couples: commitment to each other is just the same!

*But if serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.*

The Sound Of Rain

2011-11-16T11:55:00.001-08:00

Well, it is Wednesday the 16th of November.
I am sitting in my office working on some Upward items, along with tonight's toddler, k-5th and jr/sr high ministry Bible study lessons.
I took a 48 hour break from work and church this week. Well actually I was sick on Tuesday and Monday is my typical day off.
I know I have a busy week ahead of me. I am in the office today from 12pm-9pm then all day Thursday and 12 hours Friday and Saturday.
I been invited to preach for Westside Church of Christ in Ohio this Sunday.
I am looking forward to going back to Cathy and my first church as a "married" couple.

Hard to believe Thanksgiving is just around the corner. I am excited about it this year as I am every year. I will post more next time on why I am more excited this year.

Until next time.

A New Beginning

2011-11-14T15:50:00.000-08:00

November 14 2011
Today I made an app for the Android Market, I hope to get these "Love" letters back in circulation.
Lord willing, I will post a new "Love" letter everyday.

To be continued --------

So That's Why

2011-02-18T10:43:00.000-08:00

I am getting excited about a new Bible lesson we are going to start in Jr. Church.
Called...
"Mysteries of the Bible"

Should be an awesome time!!

Laters
Lonnie

I Loveeeeeeee To Eat

2011-02-15T08:47:00.000-08:00

The other day, Alex and I were talking about Upward Baseketball and I asked him what he liked best about it?
His reply was..."I love the snack time"

Then just last night I heard him tell his mom.. "I loveeeee to eat"

(to be continued)

One Day @ A Time

2011-02-15T08:38:00.000-08:00

Hello-
Well I been away for a while, but I am happy to report that I am returnning to blog and tell more stories of laughter and tears.

I been away for a while taking some on-line classes finishing my degree in Psychology.

I hope I can still enterain, encouage and motivate the blogging community.

Look for some stories very soon

Lonnie

Back

2010-11-22T16:31:00.000-08:00

Well it has been an exciting year..
I am back and able to find some time to blogg again.

Stay tuned for some fun and exciting information

Lonnie

Look Up In The Sky

2009-09-10T08:44:00.000-07:00

Well, I haven't blogged in while.. the truth is been kind of busy.. but I had to post this picture of Alexander he had dress up day and wanted to be "daddy" I mean Superman..

Can't believe how big all the boys are getting...

Till next time..

Growing Up

2009-07-28T13:13:00.001-07:00

Today I am having a meeting with Landon's pre-school teachers.. I can't believe it..where has the time gone.. It just seems like yesterday I was bringing him for the first time to meet his big brother and then a couple of years later he was a big brother.. I can't help but think of the post I wrote about Puff The Magic Dragon.. So will add the lyrics again..

Oh I know Landon will do just fine.. I just hope dad will too..

A dragon lives forever but not so little boys
Painted wings and giant rings make way for other toys.
One grey night it happened, Jackie paper came no more
And puff that mighty dragon, he ceased his fearless roar.

His head was bent in sorrow, green scales fell like rain,
Puff no longer went to play along the cherry lane.
Without his life-long friend, puff could not be brave,
So puff that mighty dragon sadly slipped into his cave. oh!

Summer 2009

2009-07-23T10:27:00.000-07:00

Wow,
it has been a while since my last post.. I been really busy with Summer 2009! let met give you a quick run down..

VBS.. was awesome!! averaged 80 kids night!
Wednesday night Bible Study.. going great my team and I are feeding stomach and minds!!
1st Junior Camp.. was incredible.. we had a Baptism!!! (Go Dylan)

But with all the God centered things going on this summer .. it still has been a climb at times.. which leads me to leave you these lyrics..
God Bless

I can almost see it
That dream I am dreaming
But there's a voice inside my head saying
"You'll never reach it"

Every step I'm taking
Every move I make feels
Lost with no direction
My faith is shaking

But I gotta keep trying
Gotta keep my head held high

There's always gonna be another mountain
I'm always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be a uphill battle
Sometimes I'm gonna have to lose

Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side
It's the climb

The struggles I'm facing
The chances I'm taking
Sometimes might knock me down
But no, I'm not breaking

I may not know it
But these are the moments that
I'm gonna remember most, yeah
Just gotta keep going

And I, I got to be strong
Just keep pushing on

'Cause there's always gonna be another mountain
I'm always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be a uphill battle
Sometimes I'm gonna have to lose

Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side
It's the climb, yeah!

There's always gonna be another mountain
I'm always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be an uphill battle
Somebody's gonna have to lose

Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side
It's the climb, yeah!

Keep on moving, keep climbing
Keep the faith, baby
It's all about, it's all about the climb
Keep the faith, keep your faith, whoa

Worth Repeating

2009-05-04T10:56:00.000-07:00

Cathy went on a "Women of Joy" conference over the weekend.. and she came back totally refreshed and on fire for the Lord to encourage others (especially wives) of ministers and other "ministry opportunities".. So with her feeling this "fresh wind/fresh fire" I thought it would be worth re posting an oldie but goodie post...

Boy meets girl.
Girls says she is spoken for.
Boy won’t give up.
Girl gives in says yes to a date
Girl leaves work, hits boy’s car
Boy smiles, thinks to himself, going to be a good date
Boy calls girl, MOM answers... Don’t like boy’s name
Boys picks up girl. See daddy, takes out all ear rings
Boy and girl have fun.
Year later Boy and girl fall in love
Girl invites boy to church
Boy goes, girl prays for boy’s salvation
Year later boy and girl get engaged
Girl still prays for boy’s salvation
3 months later God whispers to girl (I gots this)
Boy gets baptized
3 months later boy and girl say “I do”
Couple moves to Ohio
Couple love their first small very small apartment
Boy works at 11 different jobs in 5 years
Girl wants to move back to Kentucky to start a family
Boy and Girl move back no home, no jobs, and no money
Couple prays for a home, couple fine a home
God has plans for couple
God wants boy to be a Youth Minister
Couple prays for a family (God hears)
Couple fall in love and adopted first son
Couple has a second son
Couple has a third son
Boy sees a special doctor.
Family according to God’s timing

Good Idea

2009-04-24T09:51:00.000-07:00

Here's a good thing to do if you go to a party and you don't know anybody: First, take out the garbage. Then go around and collect any extra garbage that people might have, like a crumpled-up napkin, and take that out too. Pretty soon people will want to meet the busy garbage guy.

Cowboy Up

2009-04-23T13:53:00.000-07:00

If I lived back in the wild west days, instead of carrying a six-gun in my
holster, I'd carry a soldering iron. That way, if some smart-aleck cowboy said
something like "Hey, look. He's carrying a soldering iron!" and started
laughing, and everybody else started laughing, I could just say, "That's
right, it's a soldering iron. The soldering iron of justice." Then
everybody would get real quiet and ashamed, because they had made fun of the
soldering iron of justice, and I could probably hit them up for a free drink.

Happy Earth Day

2009-04-22T10:32:00.000-07:00

Earth Day, celebrated April 22, is a day designed to inspire awareness and appreciation for the Earth's environment. It was founded by U.S. Senator Gaylord Nelson as an environmental teach-in in 1970 and is celebrated in many countries every year.

Sands Of Time

2009-04-09T07:59:00.000-07:00

Hard to believe that we will be celebrating a couple of birthdays this weekend..
Alexander turned two on April 8th and Landon will be four on Saturday..and to top all that ..Brady is now 14 and heading to Sr. High Ministry this summer...(but more or Brady in a sec.)

Update:
Alexander and Landon will be having their birthday party this Saturday.. and I am still in awe of where the time has gone... What makes it even harder is that we took Landon to the eye doctor and dentist this week to get his check up for (brace yourself)...Pre-School!!! I don't know who is going to miss Landon more.. Alexander or me..

I keep asking Landon "Are you ready to go to school"? He likes to say no, but then he ask questions and loves to watch the school bus go down the road!!..

Update:
Brady again is doing an excellent job in school... brought home straight A's again this nine weeks (I am his father so YES I can brag).. He is also playing the drums in pep band this year for the high school.. which is pretty cool.. I guess we have to buy some drums this summer and send him to his (grandma's and grandpa's)!! and also is teaching his youth group this Wed. night..

Over all I think I have been blessed with these three young fellows...I am excited to see where God leads them..

But yet it is still bitter-sweet to seem them grow up so fast...

Rhythm

2009-03-27T12:12:00.000-07:00

This is an amzing video.. His name is Rob Bell and the video is part of a collection called Nooma.. (I have them in my office)..

Good Night

2009-03-18T11:47:00.000-07:00

Well It has been a while since my last blog..
I have been pretty busy with Upward, but now that the closing program is this Saturday, and marks the end of a successful season, I can get my schedule back in order.

Again, we had another great season of lives being changed.. and as always.. We want to give God the glory..

I am reminded of what Abraham Lincoln once said.

"Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power"

Upward Closing Program

2009-03-09T10:46:00.000-07:00

Well it has been awhile since my last blogg..
I am seeing much better now.. but there is still some hazy that I am trying to get over with drops..

Anyway.. Upward is almost over this year and we are excited about our "closing program"..

We have a speical guest comming in for our entertainment.

So set your calenders for March 21st..
and please bring out the families!!!

"Remix Education"

The mission of Xperience is to facilitate learning and create positive behavior by partnering with schools and churches to motivate, inspire, and teach kids through our use of high energy, interactive mascot performances.

OBJECTIVES

To present high quality academic and behavioral based programs that will facilitate learning and re-enforce positive behavior.
To create a "fun-filled" learning atmosphere for all ages.
To encourage kids to interact and be fully captivated by our performances.

WHO WE ARE:
Matt Hogg
Matt graduated from the University of Kentucky with a B.A. in Marketing and a Master’s Degree in Education. While attending school, he also served as the University’s mascot, Scratch. After college, he went on to work for the NBA as the Washington Wizards mascot, G-Wiz. Matt is the "man behind the mask" for our mascot programs.

Jenny Fleming

Jenny also graduated from the University of Kentucky with a degree in Elementary Education. She was an ambassador for the University throughout her college career as a Wildcat cheerleader. During this time, she won three Cheerleading National Championships. Jenny is the motivational speaker and teacher for our programs.

Imagine

2009-02-19T07:29:00.001-08:00

The Spring and Summer 2009 Children's Ministry calenders are now complete
I will pass them out during our Upward Closing program and to the members that following Sunday..
Our theme this year is
"Imagine" taken from Ephesians 3:20 - "Now to him who is able to do immeasurable more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us.

Thanks
Lonnie

GERTRUDE...A Firery Red Head

2009-02-13T19:03:00.000-08:00

Meet Gertrude.. Or as I have come to call her.. "Gerti" the next generation of movers and shakers in a world of non stop youth activities.. and family fun..

Stay tune for more adventures featuring our new star..

Good Bye Betty Lou....Job Well Done

2009-02-13T18:57:00.000-08:00

Well rain has come to Muddville one more time..I had to say goodbye to a friend this week..

Miss Betty Lou gave her last performance on Tuesday.. She was a swell gal.. We have had some great memories together her and I..

During the bad snow days.. Ole Betty Lou would plow through the snow, while the snow plows would move to the side... as to say.. "Lead the way Betty Lou"!!

Even when Betty Lou hit a deer at 55 mph one foggy spring day.. She just smiled and wiped the fur from her grill and kept moving..

To find the words to say goodbye to Betty Lou.. is like asking a Robin to name that song.. or a Rainbow to describe her colors..

"My..Betty Lou...Betty Lou...There was no car like you"!

God Bless America

2009-02-06T12:54:00.000-08:00

Esophagus Stretching Procedure..Or..OUCH!!

2009-02-03T11:59:00.000-08:00

Hello everyone.. with the weather being bad and not really having time to blog, I thought I would write a quick blog about my procedure on Monday..

(TEXT BOOK ANSWERE)
What is wrong with me:
Acid Peptic Stricture - This condition is very common. The stomach produces acid which, in turn, can reflux into the esophagus. This event is usually made worse by the presence of a hiatus hernia. Over time, the acid and peptic stomach juices injure the esophagus, causing inflammation and then scarring. The fibrous scar then contracts and narrows the esophageal opening.

Schatzki's Ring - This condition is really exactly that, a narrow ring of benign fibrous tissue constricting the lower esophagus. Physicians still do not know how it develops.

(WHAT I FELT)
Cough.. Cough.. Gag, Gag... Scope... Scope.. Chew slowly Chew slowy..(I did this 4 times)

(WHAT THEY DID FOR ME MONDAY)
TEXT BOOK:
Achalasia Dilators - Achalasia is a special situation which requires a larger, balloon-type dilator. The procedure is frequently done under x-ray control. In this situation, the spastic muscle fibers in the lower esophagus are stretched and broken, which in turn allows easier passage of food and liquid into the stomach.

(WHAT I FELT)
OUCH!!!!!!

I have to do it one more time at the end of the month..

(Dont worry.. in about 3 weeks, I wil be able to eat a whole turkey again in one bite!!!

Flash - Back

2009-01-21T13:45:00.000-08:00

Well.. being that we have a new president now in the Oval Office..and I am sure everyone is excited and wondering what is going to happen next.. I wont make any blog about it.. but I would like to blog about days in the past..

I was on my "face-book" account and I ran into some old friends from days of the big hair and parachute pants. It was pretty cool seeing and hearing from alot of past friends..

They really love to hear that "good-ole" Lonnie Love is now a Minister..
The one thing they all keep saying is.."You were funny"..

Can't Get To Heaven Dunken A Basketball

2009-01-17T20:05:00.000-08:00

Today was the first Game of our Upward Basketball and Cheerleadng season.. and over all I believe it was a great first day.. I personally want to thank all who are involved in this tremendous ministry..

I Do believe that THIS generation is going to change the world!!!
Because Upward is about changing lives for Christ..

our goal is simple..
Encourage Every Child That He/She Is A Winner
Introduce Them and Their Family to Jesus Christ
Connect Them To A Church..

Prety simple isn't it.. and they say a "child" can't lead

Best Line Ever...

2009-01-15T08:37:00.000-08:00

Listen carefully to the last line of this video clip!!!

Behind The Eight Ball

2009-01-14T12:51:00.000-08:00

Ever heard that expression "behind the eight ball"... I always wonder what that mean..

Here you go...

Meaning:
A difficult position from which it is unlikely one can escape.

Origin:
From the Eight Ball version of the game of billiards, which is played on a pool table. The balls are numbered and must be potted in order. The game is forfeited if a player's cue ball hits the (black) eight ball first. A 'behind the eight ball' position leaves a player in imminent danger of losing.

Relating to pool as it does, it is no surprise that the expression is American. It dates from the early 20th century - the earliest citation I can find is from the Ohio newspaper The Marion Star, May 1916

This past two weeks I have found myself "behind the eight ball"..
Seems like no matter how hard I try.. I can please everyone..
and honestly..
Some of things that were said to me are pretty hurtful.. but you know me.. I have to keep "being the life of the party"!!

To bad when I get home the balloons and streamers are all gone.....

Roast Beef - Pork and Chicken..

2009-01-13T08:02:00.000-08:00

Hello good folks..
Well it has been a few days since my last post.. So I thought I would entertain you with my amazing news from last night..

To make it fun lets go by time.. shall we..

Monday-
2:15pm - Landon is watching Scooby - Doo in my bedroom and we both fall asleep.. Alex is taking his nap and Brady is playing the Wii..

3:00pm - I wake up and decided to put some cloths in washer.. but first I will take a piece of chicken from the crock pot.. it smells so good!!!

3:05pm - Something doesn't feel right as I head down to the basement.. I cant swallow.. (oh no here we go)

4:00pm - I tried for almost and hour chicken still caught.. call Cathy she is on her way home..

4:30pm - Head to the ER again...

5:30pm - Head upstairs at the hospital to the surgery floor.. Same team as last time in Sept.. they remember me.. Jeff (the "gas man") starts to laugh..

6:30pm - They wake me up.. and the chicken is out..

I found out that I have to go back for surgery on Feb 2 to have my esophagus stretched.. that should make for a fun Monday..

The End
Ps.. Why titled it Roast Beef - Pork and Chicken
they were the three major meats that got caught

Upward

2009-01-08T10:26:00.000-08:00

Well, Upward Basketball and Cheer leading is up and running..
I am looking forward to another great season..
I personally want to thank EVERYONE involved..YOUR part, no matter
what it is .. is making a difference in child's life

Christmas Truce

2008-12-24T22:23:00.000-08:00

Found this story while I was up on Christmas Eve.. Thought it was pretty interesting..

The "Christmas Truce".. true story of the peace shared one Christmas night in WWI this is an exert of an actual letter written by a British solider of WWI

The letter begins:

This will be the most memorable Christmas I've ever spent or likely to spend: since about tea time yesterday I don't think theres been a shot fired on either side up to now. Last night turned a very clear frost moonlight night, so soon after dusk we had some decent fires going and had a few carols and songs. The Germans commenced by placing lights all along the edge of their trenches and coming over to us — wishing us a Happy Christmas etc. They also gave us a few songs etc. so we had quite a social party. Several of them can speak English very well so we had a few conversations. Some of our chaps went to over to their lines. I think theyve all come back bar one from 'E' Co. They no doubt kept him as a souvenir. In spite of our fires etc. it was terribly cold and a job to sleep between look out duties, which are two hours in every six.

First thing this morning it was very foggy. So we stood to arms a little longer than usual. A few of us that were lucky could go to Holy Communion early this morning. It was celebrated in a ruined farm about 500 yds behind us. I unfortunately couldn't go. There must be something in the spirit of Christmas as to day we are all on top of our trenches running about. Whereas other days we have to keep our heads well down. We had breakfast about 8.0 which went down alright especially some cocoa we made. We also had some of the post this morning. I had a parcel from B. G's Lace Dept containing a sweater, smokes, under clothes etc. We also had a card from the Queen, which I am sending back to you to look after please. After breakfast we had a game of football at the back of our trenches! We've had a few Germans over to see us this morning. They also sent a party over to bury a sniper we shot in the week. He was about a 100 yds from our trench. A few of our fellows went out and helped to bury him.

About 10.30 we had a short church parade the morning service etc. held in the trench. How we did sing. 'O come all ye faithful. And While shepherds watched their flocks by night' were the hymns we had. At present we are cooking our Christmas Dinner! so will finish this letter later.

Dinner is over! and well we enjoyed it. Our dinner party started off with fried bacon and dip-bread: followed by hot Xmas Pudding. I had a mascot in my piece. Next item on the menu was muscatels and almonds, oranges, bananas, chocolate etc followed by cocoa and smokes. You can guess we thought of the dinners at home. Just before dinner I had the pleasure of shaking hands with several Germans: a party of them came 1/2way over to us so several of us went out to them. I exchanged one of my balaclavas for a hat. I've also got a button off one of their tunics. We also exchanged smokes etc. and had a decent chat. They say they won't fire tomorrow if we don't so I suppose we shall get a bit of a holiday — perhaps. After exchanging autographs and them wishing us a Happy New Year we departed and came back and had our dinner.

We can hardly believe that we've been firing at them for the last week or two — it all seems so strange. At present its freezing hard and everything is covered with ice…

The letter ends:

There are plenty of huge shell holes in front of our trenches, also pieces of shrapnel to be found. I never expected to shake hands with Germans between the firing lines on Christmas Day and I don't suppose you thought of us doing so. So after a fashion we've enjoyed? our Christmas. Hoping you spend a happy time also George Boy as well. How we thought of England during the day. Kind regards to all the neighbours. With much love from Boy.

Puff

2008-12-22T10:01:00.000-08:00

It is Monday afternoon and I am sitting in my office.. I had to work today, because Cathy needed to be at her work on Tuesday.. I came in and worked on Upward Basketball and Cheer leading.. putting the finishing touches on it before I leave for vacation on Friday.. I am not really going anywhere.. I am just relaxing at home staying up late and eating a cheese ball.. anyway.. The reason I am blogging..

I was listening to that song, Puff, The Magic Dragon..and I didn't realize how sad the end of the song is.. here are the lyrics to the last part..(try not to sing if you can help it)

A dragon lives forever
But not so little boys
Painted wings and giant rings
Make way for other toys.

One grey night it happened,
Jackie Paper came no more
And Puff that mighty dragon,
He ceased his fealess roar.

His head was bent in sorrow,
Green scales fell like rain,
Puff no longer went to play
Along the cherry lane.

Without his life-long friend,
Puff could not be brave,
So Puff that mighty dragon
Sadly slipped into his cave. Oh!

I guess the sad part was when I was with Landon yesterday.. We were doing some last minute Christmas shopping and it was sort a "guys day out" Brady was at a birthday party and Alex was napping..
But the more I listen to this song.. the more I think about my boys.. like I said before..
Brady will be 14 in a few weeks.. and he is already growing to the point that "he is a teen and don't need dad around as much" and Landon.. my goodness..he is getting to the age of almost ready for school..(he will be 4 in a few months) and when he puts on his back pack with his trains.. he looks so grown up..and finally Alexander.. he is just a "hoss" running around slamming into the wall!!

They grow up so fast.. I still hope they will need their dad..

A Hero.. Rises Up !!.....I CAN"T WAIT

2008-12-18T20:01:00.000-08:00

Where Are You Christmas....I Know.......Do You?

2008-12-17T19:53:00.000-08:00

Tonight as I sit here listening to some songs on the Internet, I feel blessed knowing that my family is safe, with full tummies and warm beds.. But sometimes I wonder about other kids in this world.. and the kids in our own back yard..

It is no secret, that our church has had the privilege of picking up and bringing some kids from our community to our church to show them what, "real love is"..

Tonight, we had our Christmas party for the kids.. I don't think it was the gifts or the food.. (even though I love cake and ice-cream) that made this day special I think it was the gift that I got from a little child with a "key"
You see,..This day started out pretty .. well just say "different"

It all started about 1:15pm, I was headed to my office as I always do on Wednesday afternoon.. I thought about getting some gas and maybe some peanut M&M's, but I declined knowing that I had cheese flavor Bugles in my office..

Well, heading up the this hill on US 27, my car died on me again.. (yep.. again!!).. So I made some calls and finally got of hold of Harold Brett, who came and gave me a ride to the church..(thanks brother).. I called big Roger to bail me out..... (again).. So now I am safe and sound in my office when I started getting calls from folks, asking and seeing if I was ok.. (I am very sorry for not calling back and letting everyone know, that I was ok..)...

Anyway.. I headed to the big white church van around 5pm to get it warmed up to go pick up the kids from town..Guess what!!!..?

Yep the white van wouldn't start!!! I was stuck!! The blue mini van was already on a mission of her own.. so I started to make some calls.. and I was able to get another vehicle to come to the rescue..( I wont give the name .. so they wont be embarrassed..They would want God to get all the glory!!)

Anyway .. we got all the kids picked up and to church, but before our party .. I wanted to share a small lesson with the kids..

"What does God want for Christmas?" I asked.. after doing a small hands on with different gifts.. I finnaly showed them what God wanted for Christmas..
It was "them"..

I told them through poetry and a little mirror.. that God wants "YOU".. for Christmas..
Anyway.. after that, we had gifts,..love, food, more love..and laughter...!
Then I noticed something..

A little girl name Samantha.. was wearing this "key" on a chain that I had giving her back in July.. she promised me she would never take it off.. her words were really, "I will never take it off.. ever Mr. Lonnie.."

and guess what.. She hasn't!!!

So, "where is Christmas"?.. You can't look to the stars for your answer.. you have to look into your own heart..

Something I found from Smallville.. (and you know I am a big Smallville fan)

Clark: I didn’t ask for this life.
Chloe: We didn’t ask for a world that needs heroes, but
the truth is we do. Now more then ever, Clark
- Chloe Sullivan

You dont't need to fly to be a HERO...!! just LOVE..

Merry Christmas..

Best Christmas and Anytime Movie Ever!!

2008-12-15T16:35:00.000-08:00

The Christmas Card

Cody Cullen, an Army sergeant serving in Afghanistan, receives a handmade Christmas card from a stranger back in the States and is deeply touched by the warmth of the personalized greeting within. While on leave back home, he travels to Nevada City, California, the picturesque town from which the card was sent. Once there, Cody meets and falls in love with beautiful Faith Spelman, who sent the card, and quickly becomes a cherished member of the Spelman family. Yet romance for Cody and Faith seems out of the question, because she has a boyfriend and is about to become engaged.

I Believe I Can Fly (part 2)...Oh My I Am Sore!!

2008-12-12T19:14:00.000-08:00

I think I will leave the game to the pros..
but it was fun!!!

I Believe I Can Fly...

2008-12-12T11:45:00.000-08:00

Well tonight is our 3 on 3 basketball tourneyment.. I have been watching videos of Micheal Jordan all afternoon!! So I think I am ready..(can anyone say OXYGEN TANK)..
Naw.. I think I will do pretty good tonight.. I went and got me some new high tops and I got me this killer out fit that belong to the old Mason County High School basketball team.. (good will store) so tonight.. I may be #45 in your program.. but I am #1 in your hearts!!!

We Will - We Will Rock You!!

2008-12-04T13:43:00.000-08:00

Merry Christmass

2008-12-04T11:22:00.001-08:00

Cool Video

2008-12-01T13:38:00.001-08:00

The Boys

2008-11-25T20:32:00.001-08:00

Create your own FACEinHOLE

Messing With Alex

2008-11-25T20:20:00.001-08:00

Create your own FACEinHOLE

Landon For Fun

2008-11-25T20:12:00.000-08:00

Create your own FACEinHOLE

Who I AM

2008-11-25T08:10:00.000-08:00

I am a minister. I minister to the largest mission field in the world. I minister to children.

My calling is sure, my challenge is big, my vision is clear. My desire is strong. My influence is eternal. My impact is critical. My values are solid. My faith is tough. My mission is urgent. My purpose is unmistakable. My direction is forward. My heart is genuine. My strength is supernatural. My reward is promised and my God is real.

In a world of cynicism I offer hope. In a world of confusion I offer truth. In a world of immorality I offer values. In a world of neglect I offer attention. In a world of abuse I offer safety. In a world of ridicule I offer affirmation. In a world of division I offer reconciliation. In a world of bitterness I offer forgiveness. In a world of sin I offer salvation. In a world of hate I offer God’s love.

I refuse to be dismayed, disengaged, disgruntled, discouraged, or distracted. Neither will I look back, stand back, fall back, go back, or sit back. I do not need applause, flattery, adulation, prestige, stature, or veneration. I do not have time for business as usual, mediocre standards, small thinking, outdated methods, or normal expectations, average results, ordinary ideas, petty disputes, or low vision. I will not give up, give in, bail out, lie down, turn over, quit or surrender.

I will pray when things look bad. I will pray when things look good. I will move forward when others stand still. I will trust God when obstacles arise. I will work when the task is overwhelming. I will get up when I fall down.

My calling is to reach boys and girls for God. It is to serious to be taken lightly, too urgent to be postponed, too vital to be ignored, too relevant to be overlooked, too significant to be trivialized, too eternal to be fleeting, and too passionate to be quenched.

I know my mission. I know my challenge. I also know my imitations, my weaknesses, my fears, and my problems. And I know my God.

Let others get the praise. Let the church get the blessing. Let God get the glory.

I am a minister. I minister to children. This is who I am. This is what I do.

In my view, I see that I am an extension of the home or parents. I train children. Yes, it is a challenge, but it is very rewarding. I love my job as a Pastor. I really love when I see a child that I had in children church go on through youth ministry and really apply themselves to studying God’s Word, because it shows me that their parents were even more intense about that child’s spiritual walk.

Landon's Long Lost Twin

2008-11-23T13:40:00.001-08:00

Create your own FACEinHOLE

Super Lonnie

2008-11-21T12:11:00.000-08:00

Create your own FACEinHOLE

Yea Baby!!!

2008-11-18T13:37:00.000-08:00

Create your own FACEinHOLE

Landon Has Been To The Gym...

2008-11-18T12:58:00.001-08:00

Create your own FACEinHOLE

Born To Be Wild!!!

2008-11-18T12:06:00.001-08:00

Create your own FACEinHOLE

All In The Family

2008-11-18T08:04:00.000-08:00

Create your own FACEinHOLE

Create your own FACEinHOLE

Two Pretty Awesome Clips...

2008-11-17T17:47:00.000-08:00

Monday...

2008-11-17T14:49:00.000-08:00

Well it is Monday night, I have fed the kids in I will work on the dishes in a bit.. Cathy had to work till 9pm tonight so I got to get the house back in order before she gets home!!..

I just wanted to put a small blogg up right now.. I been posting goofy pictures and knew it was time for some real stories.. I have some lined up, and I will share with you all soon..

This is kind of cool though.. I best friend from high school contacted me today and he is in the big city of Louisville.. or is it Louey-ville!! any way I emailed him back and we are going to try to get together soon.. I will post some stories about him and I in the days of PHS in the late 80's

Are You Ready To Rumble..........

2008-11-17T12:34:00.001-08:00

Create your own FACEinHOLE

Her Heart Will Go On..............

2008-11-15T18:52:00.000-08:00

Create your own FACEinHOLE

Brady

2008-11-15T18:49:00.000-08:00

Create your own FACEinHOLE

Hero

2008-11-15T17:18:00.000-08:00

Create your own FACEinHOLE

My Precious

2008-11-15T16:45:00.000-08:00

Create your own FACEinHOLE

WWCD.."What Will Clark Do"

2008-11-14T08:34:00.000-08:00

This is the episode I have been waiting for!!
Doomsday is the only villain that ever killed Superman!!
What will happen?!?!?!

New Twist On An Old Favorite...

2008-11-12T19:09:00.000-08:00

Just sitting at my desk.. thinking about the events of today and our Bible Study and I was surfing the net and found this group called "Westlife" they have been around for 10 years.. I just now noticed them.. I like what they have to say...Enjoy

"I Will Make Him An Offer....He Can't Refuse"

2008-11-12T12:52:00.000-08:00

Check this out.. I am sitting my office on a Wednesday night around 4pm and I was taking a break from Upward Data Input (putting registration information in the computer)and I thought.. "Hey Lonnie.. you good looking blue eyed son of a gun"! You haven't really blogged in a while.. So here I go..

Cathy and I went to dinner the other night to a place called Johnny Coratoes or something.. It was Italian and it reminded me of the Godfather movies..

Have a good night

Thank You

2008-11-11T13:10:00.000-08:00

Good Video.. Real Message

2008-11-05T13:39:00.000-08:00

Being in Children's and Family Ministry, you come across a lot of family members going through this..

I think this is a AWESOME video!! and brings home the message

Upward

2008-11-05T11:58:00.000-08:00

Well, it is that time of year again. We will be starting our Upward Basketball and Cheer leading Ministry this Friday with our first evaluation night, and then two more in the weeks to come.

I am looking forward to an exacting new year.
If you would like to know more about this amazing ministry, just click over to www.antiochmills.org.

Just Around The Corner

2008-10-28T14:54:00.000-07:00

Thought I would post this video.. Landon loves this movie and I think the song is quite good my self..and besides.. Might as well get in the spirit of Christmas now!!

Finally!!...Ladies and Gentlemen.. SUPERMAN

2008-10-24T21:02:00.000-07:00

Nick Vujicic

2008-10-20T19:08:00.000-07:00

About Nick Vujicic
A Remarkable Story of God's Grace

It says in James 1:2, "Consider it pure joy, my Brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds."

It seemed like a tall order to “count” hurt, pain and struggle as nothing but “pure joy” when my birth date arrived. My parents were Christians; my Dad was even a Pastor of our church, so that verse was quite familiar to them. However, on the morning of December 4th , 1982, in Melbourne, Australia, the last two words on the minds of my parents was "Praise God!". Their firstborn son had been born without limbs! There were no warnings or time to prepare themselves for it. Having no answers at all, the doctors were completely shocked and taken off guard!

The whole church mourned over my birth and my parents were absolutely devastated. "If God is a God of love, “ they questioned, “Then why would He let something like this happen, and especially to committed Christians?" My Dad did not think I would survive for very long. But, tests proved that I was a healthy baby boy with just one hitch, I’d been born without any limbs.

Understandably, my parents had strong concern and evident fears of what kind of life I would be able to lead. The first big hurdle was for my parents to be at peace, trusting that God was still fully in control. It took a number of months and a lot of tears, questions and grief before coming to terms within their own hearts. God provided them with the strength, wisdom and courage they would need through those early years. Soon after that, I was old enough to go to school.

School was really enjoyable for me and I really tried to live life like everyone else. But, it was in my early years of school where I encountered uncomfortable times of feeling rejected, weird and bullied because of my physical difference. It was very hard for me to get used to. In spite of this, with the support of my parents, I started to develop attitudes and values which helped me overcome these challenging times. Though I knew I was different, on the inside, I was just like everyone else. There were many times when I felt so low that I wouldn't go to school in order to avoid all the negative attention. With encouragement from my parents, I began to ignore the bullies and tried to start making friends by just talking with some of the kids. Soon the students realized that I was just like them. Starting there, God began to bless me with new friends!

Many times I felt depressed and angry because I couldn't change the way I was, or blame anyone for that matter. In Sunday school, I learned that God loves us all and that He cares for us deeply. At that stage in my childhood, I could understand His love to a point. But, as you can imagine, I still got hung up on that fact that if he really loved me, why did He make me like this? I wondered if I’d done something wrong and began to feel certain that this must be true. Otherwise, I thought, God wouldn’t have made me the only weird one out of all the kids at school. Feeling I was a burden to those around me, I sensed the sooner I’d just go away altogether, the better it would be for everyone. So, at a young age, I wanted to end my pain and my life. But I am thankful, once again, for my parents and my family who were always there to comfort me and lend me their strength. Thankfully, a real turning point arrived!

Due to the emotional struggles I had experienced with bullying, self-esteem and loneliness, God began to instill a passion of sharing my story and experiences to help others cope with whatever challenge they might have in their lives. Turning my struggles into something that would glorify God and bless others, I realized my purpose! The Lord was going to use me to encourage and inspire others to live to their fullest potential and not let anything get in the way of accomplishing their hopes and dreams.

As I grew older, God continued to prepare my heart and teach me to seek Him. One of the first lessons that I have learned was not to take things for granted. With a wake-up call around the age of twelve, I realized just how much God had blessed me. My foot, what I’ve termed “my little chicken bone” I had been taking for granted. But it serves me well. God had freely given to me and so much with my loving family, and so many other blessings, I realized “Why should I still complain?” God directed me to Romans 8:28 and there I found this, "And we know that in all things God works for the best for those who love Him." Wow! That verse really spoke to my heart. It convicted me to the point where I’m confident that there’s no such thing as luck, chance or coincidence and that these "bad" things happen in our life to make us more like Christ.

In James 1:3 & 4, it reads, "...know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything." Enlightened through God’s Word, I felt complete peace rush in, knowing that God will not let anything happen to us unless He has a good purpose for it. At the age of 15, I completely gave my life to Christ after reading John 9. In this chapter, Jesus said that the reason the man was born blind was "so that the works of God may be revealed through Him." I truly believed that God would heal me so I could be a great testimony of His awesome power. As I grew in Christ and in spiritual maturity, the Lord gave me the wisdom to understand that if we pray for something within His will, it will happen, but in His timing…not ours. And likewise, if our prayers are not within God's will, then I know that He has something better. His purpose became clearer to me and now I’m fully convinced and understand that His glory is revealed as He uses me just the way I am. And even more wonderful, He can use me in ways others can't be used.

Now twenty-five years old, I’ve completed a Bachelor’s Degree in both Financial Planning and Accounting. Also, I’m active as a motivational speaker. Again, my number one passion is for souls. I just love to go out and share my story and testimony wherever opportunities become available. Over time, I’ve developed messages that relate to and encourage students through topics that challenge today's teenagers. The Lord has used me to speak in the corporate sector as well. For more information on Nick's presentations, go to "Nick's Ministry".

In recent years, I’ve learned to become independent and can now take care of all my personal needs. I’m able to do everything from brushing my teeth and combing my hair to dressing up and taking care of my personal hygiene, including shaving. I get around the house by jumping around and, outside the house; an electric wheelchair assists me. For recreation, I enjoy swimming, fishing and playing soccer.

Passionate for reaching out to the youth, I’m constantly ministering in schools from elementary to high school. Ultimately, I make myself available for whatever God wants me to do, and wherever He leads, I follow, for I’ve learned to trust Him fully.

Achieving goals and pursuing dreams is something I’m actively pursuing on a regular basis. Some of these include becoming the best witness I can be of God's love and hope, to become an international inspirational speaker and to be used as a vessel in both Christian and non-Christian venues. These goals are, even now, being realized. Other aspirations of mine yet to be realized is my desire to modify a car that I can drive, to be interviewed on the "Oprah Winfrey Show" and share my story, and to write several books. With anticipation, I look forward to starting on the first of these this year. Not surprisingly, the title will be, "No Arms, No Legs, No Worries!"

Many would think these goals were too far-fetched. However, I believe that if you have the desire and passion to do something, and it's within God's will, you will achieve it in good time. As humans, we continually put limits on ourselves for no reason at all! What's worse is putting limits on God, who is well able to do all things! We put God in a "box". The awesome thing about the power of God is that if we want to do something for God, we must refocus. Instead of concentrating on our capability, our attention needs to shift to our availability. For, the Word of God is clear; it is God working through us. Without Him, we aren’t capable of doing anything on our own. Once we make ourselves available for God's work, guess whose capabilities we rely on? God's! Philippians 4:13 highlights this point well, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." God has a truly great purpose for your life!

As far as your unanswered prayers, remember that God is Faithful. What are we to do when we are seeking but not finding? Jeremiah 29:12 states, "Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. I will be found by you," declares the Lord.

Take courage my friend for the Battle is the Lord's. Let me urge you to keep striving for the truth. The truth, found in Jesus Christ, is what will set you free. It’s His peace, reigning in your heart, that will give you true freedom from the fear and doubt that has previously resided there. May the Lord bless you as you diligently seek Him and grant you Godly wisdom and strength through your journey.

Brady and Band

2008-10-17T12:15:00.001-07:00

Thought I would add this pic of Brady in his Harrison County Marching Band uniform..
he plays the baratone sax..
He has a compt. this Sat. in Boon County

Camping...What Was I Thinking!?!?

2008-10-16T18:19:00.000-07:00

I took the family camping this past week.. and I guess I am letting the "title" make it sound worse then it was....
Acutally it wasnt that bad.. I mean.. besides Alexander being tied to a tree with a rope or Landon throwing rocks in the lake evertime Brady casted his line or the endless chatter of kids in a camper sleeping and having "to go pee daddy!!"

Thank goodness my parents didnt live that far away.. Cathy got to spend the nights with Alex in a nice soft bed..

Over all it was pretty good.. I think the highlights were when Brady was meeting new kids at ridding his bike or playing football with them and Alex at the playground or Landon sitting next to me at the campfire saying.."This is cool"

*side note*
Landon doesnt like to "roast" his marshmellows.. he rather just hold the bag and eat them!

Biker Boyz!!!

2008-10-03T18:02:00.001-07:00

Alexander on his big ole hog!!!

@ Brady's Band Contest

2008-10-03T17:59:00.000-07:00

As you can see Landon and Alex were having the time of their lives!!!
Brady did good, will post pics of the compt. When I scan them

Update

2008-10-03T11:44:00.000-07:00

Just a snap shot of Cathy and I at my high school reunion in Sept.

I Can't Reach His.....

2008-10-02T11:21:00.000-07:00

Ok, this is a classic.. There were some cookies on the counter, and Landon asked if he could have one? I said, sure, but make sure you give your brother (Alexander)one too..

So he came back into the living room with 2 cookies in his hand, and Alex was crying. I said Landon, where is Alex's cookie? Here is what the middle child said.

Daddy, I wanted 2 cookies, and I couldn't reach anymore..!!!!

Are YOU Fireproof

2008-09-27T19:48:00.000-07:00

Cathy and I along with Tara and Curtis Marsh went to see the movie Fireproof, and it was an AWESOME movie I do declare.. but don't let me be the only voice, hear what the offical Fireproof web sight is saying!!

Thank You ... Thank You ... Thank GOD!
Throughout 2008, you have followed the behind-the-scenes story of FIREPROOF, an action-packed love story about a fireman, his wife ... and a marriage worth rescuing.

Friday, on opening day, you experienced the movie firsthand. With friends and family, with small groups and entire churches, you went. And laughter, tears, and cheers filled 839 theaters across the country.

Today, as movie-industry insiders look at all of the statistical data from yesterday, they are trying to figure out how in the world a movie they didn't even know about was one of the most popular movies in the country on Friday.

That's right: FIREPROOF was the No. 3 movie in America yesterday! You have thoroughly confounded Hollywood.

Will FIREPROOF stay No. 3 the rest of Opening Weekend? By industry standards, it seems extremely unlikely. The next five movies that finished behind FIREPROOF are playing on approximately 2,500 screens each.

So the key is that people like us keep showing up at movie theaters, both today and tomorrow. Let's show Hollywood that FIREPROOF is the kind of movie you will support. Let them know that this is more than a movie ... it's a movement.

As we found out with Facing the Giants two years ago and FIREPROOF last night, with God, all things are possible ... even in the movie industry. Make that especially in the movie industry.

Thank you! And thanks for continuing to support FIREPROOF on this all-important weekend.

Bubble Bubble Toil and Trouble

2008-09-18T08:49:00.000-07:00

Well, we had an interesting night at out house on Tuesday. Seems like Landon has a wee-bit problem not doing as he is told and back-talking.
Normally I would understand being he is still small, but he will be four years old in a few months so we have to start breaking him of this habit.

You see Tuesday night, Cathy told Landon it was time for bed and he told her, "Hush! you don't tell me, in fact, YOU go to bed Mommy"!

Well it seems he has been "mouthy" all day so Cathy took him into the kitchen sat him down on the floor and put a drop of "Joy" dish liquid on his tongue, and explain that we don't talk like that to Mommy.

Well, after it was done, I started to laugh to myself, because, Landon is always singing that song "I got the joy, joy, joy, down in my heart"!

So I started singing..
"I got the "JOY" joy, joy down in my heart.

I think he is learning his lesson.

The World Does Need A Hero

2008-09-16T12:48:00.000-07:00

You know after allot of thinking and much time in prayer and just looking around at the need of compassion and love for the kids in this community and beyond,.. I realized that even with the negative statements I got from a few people.. The world does need a hero..

Good Quote

2008-09-16T02:26:00.000-07:00

"One journey has ended. A new journey is about to begin." - Jor-El

Doomsday

2008-09-11T20:24:00.000-07:00

I wonder sometimes..
Why be a hero..
You just might end up alone....

Top Shows of Smallville

2008-09-11T12:37:00.000-07:00

Season 1
The Pilot - (how it all began)
Hourglass - (looks at the future of Clark and Lex)
Stray - (first meet Ryan)

Season 2
Red - (first introduced to red metor rock)
Lineage - (find out the Luthors helped the Kents with Clark's adoption)
Ryan - (first really sad show on Smallville
Rosetta - (Clark learns where he is from + has Christopher Reeve)

Season 3
Slumber - (just down right creepy)
Relic - (Jor-El visited Smallville in the 1960's)
Asylum - (first look at how crazy Lex is)
Memoria - (Lex cracking up as a kid)

Season 4
Crusade - (Clark/Kal-El flies)
Run - (introduced to Bart/The Flash)
Onyx - (see the real Lex Luthor)

Season 5
Aqua - (for Timmy)
Lexmas - (what could of been)
Reckoning - (death of John Kent)
Vessel - (welcome to earth Gen. Zod)

Season 6
Arrow - (Hello Oliver Queen)
Justice - (coolest one of them all)
Nemesis - (best line ever "were you ever really my friend Lex?")

Season 7
Action - (Clarks saves Lana from falling off a building)
Descent - (Lionel Luthor dies by the hands of Lex)
Apocalypse - (shows what if Clark never came to earth)
Arctic - (Lex destroys the Fortress)

Who will you follow in combat?

2008-09-08T14:36:00.001-07:00

Who would you want as your Commander in Chief?
Someone who refuses to place his hand over his heart during the pledge to our nation's flag (remember he is a US Senator.........

Or someone who fought and bled for her country?

CONNECT

2008-09-08T10:26:00.000-07:00

While the prophet Samuel was young, he lived in the Temple under the spiritual guidance of Eli. One night God called Samuel’s name, but he thought it was Eli. After this happened several times, Eli realized the truth and told Samuel to go back to bed and if he heard the voice again to respond by saying . . .

“Speak, Lord, for your servant is listening!” 1 Samuel 3:9b

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See You at the Pole™ is a student-initiated, student organized, and student-led event. That means this is all about students meeting at their school flagpole to pray—for their school, friends teachers, government, and their nation. See You at the Pole™ is not a demonstration, political rally, nor a stand for or against anything.

See You at the Pole™ is scheduled annually on the fourth Wednesday in September, which is September 24 in 2008. The suggested starting time is 7 a.m. If that doesn't work for your school, choose a time that will work for your school, but let everyone at your school know!

Mark 6:4

2008-09-07T16:37:00.000-07:00

I learned a profound but true life lesson today. I never new this to be so true untill now.

"If you are destined to saved the world. you are destined to be alone"

The Man!!!

2008-09-05T07:18:00.000-07:00

Chuck Norris ordered a Big Mac at Burger King, and got one.

Chuck Norris doesn't worry about changing his clock twice a year for daylight savings time. The sun rises and sets when Chuck tells it to.

If paper beats rock, rock beats scissors, and scissors beats paper, what beats all 3 at the same time? Answer: Chuck Norris.

When Chuck Norris was denied a Bacon McMuffin at McDonalds because it was 10:35, he roundhouse kicked the store so hard it became a KFC.

Chuck Norris’ roundhouse kick is so powerful, it can be seen from outer space by the naked eye.

Chuck Norris has never blinked in his entire life. Never.

Chuck Norris invented water.

Chuck Norris is Luke Skywalker’s real father.

Aliens do exist. They're just waiting for Chuck Norris to die before they attack.

The Right Choice

2008-09-03T21:28:00.000-07:00

As the son and grandson of distinguished Navy admirals, John McCain deeply values duty, honor and service of country. John attended college at the United States Naval Academy, and launched a 22-year career as a naval aviator upon his graduation. He continued the McCain tradition of service to country passed down to him from his father and grandfather when he asked to serve in the Vietnam War.

On July 29 1967, John narrowly survived the first of many near-death experiences during his lifetime while preparing to take off on a bombing mission over North Vietnam from his ship, the USS Forrestal. A missile accidentally fired from a nearby plane struck the fuel tanks on John's plane and created a deadly inferno aboard the ship. John barely escaped the fiery disaster that killed 134 men, injured hundreds more and destroyed 20 planes.

Instead of taking the option to return home after the Forrestal disaster, Senator McCain volunteered for more combat duty - a fateful decision that stopped the clock on his life and separated him from his family, and country, for five and a half years.

During his 23rd bombing mission on October 26, 1967, a missile struck John's plane and forced him to eject, knocking him unconscious and breaking both his arms and his leg. John was then taken as a prisoner of war into the now infamous "Hanoi Hilton," where he was denied necessary medical treatment and often beaten by the North Vietnamese. John spent much of his time as a prisoner of war in solitary confinement, aided by his faith and the friendships of his fellow POWs. When he was finally released and able to return home years later, John continued his service by regaining his naval flight status.

Senator McCain's last Navy duty assignment was to serve as the naval liaison to the United States Senate. John retired from the Navy in 1981. His naval honors include the Silver Star, Bronze Star, Legion of Merit, Purple Heart, and the Distinguished Flying Cross.

I Still Blog............

2008-08-17T09:54:00.000-07:00

Well, it is Sunday afternoon, I am still sitting in my office, waiting for Cathy and the boys to pick me up.. I didn't feel like eating, so I decided to stay and work a little, besides, we are going to a bar-b-q at 4pm...

Anyway I thought I would write a small blog for my pal Casey...she said this morning I haven't been writing as much.. So Casey this is for you..

"Jack and Jill went up the hill to fetch a pail of water. Jack fell down and broke his crown, and Jill came tumbling after!!"

See, I still blog!!!!!

Should Of Been There On A Sunday Morning......

2008-08-16T12:56:00.000-07:00

I cry out to God
Seeking only his decision
Gabriel stands and confirms
I've created my own prison

Viva Las Vegas.... Margaret and Germany

2008-08-15T06:47:00.000-07:00

If you are an avid reader of "Love-Letters", then you will notice from time to time comments left by a person named "margaret" (that is how she spells it, she never uses capital letters)

Since I been blogging, I never really introduced you to my friend "Margaret"..
So ladies and gentlemen, sit back and let me introduce you to my friend Margaret.

I believe it was the spring of '89,(just before that little desert thing in the 90's) I was stationed in Ulm, German with the 29th Signal Battalion. Well that day we were heading to the riffle range to fire off some rounds, (yea they gave me a real gun!!) anyway. Margaret had just arrived and they placed her on the truck next to me..and me, being my cool self thought I would introduce myself. (now you have to understand, in the Army, you have your last name printed on your BDU's or Battle Dressed Uniforms). So anyway.. I inched my way over to find a more comfortable seat on the deuce and a half truck, and calmly and cool said.. "Hi I am Lonnie, what is your name?" She looked at me with these "deer in the head lights eyes" and then openly and obviously, pointed to her BDU top and said.. "Can you read." (of course in a nice "Vegas style" way, you see she was from Las Vegas!!..

Anyway as time went on, she became a very good friend.I remember this one time, (and if she reads this she might remember) She walked over to the male dorms and she stood outside my window and handed me an Easter Basket, and in the basket were candy and a crystal Porsche, that I still have to day...

She even went as far as to call me on Christmas day when we both were on leave, she was in Las Vegas and I was in Kentucky...

and the cool thing is after all these years.. she still picks up the phone or shoots me an email...

So to my friend Margaret..."I lift my glass to ya"....(inside joke...October Fest)!!!
Oh... and Margaret.. what about all those commanders we had..
Capt Mattox
Capt Grover...(remember when he went out and we watched thier kids.. (such bad kids)!!

Twenty Years Ago.....

2008-08-14T14:10:00.001-07:00

This Saturday night I have my 20th high school class reunion. It is hard to believe that twenty years has gone by.. it happened so fast.. I look around at my office walls and I see so many pictures of people who are in my life, and the ones who are no longer around.
I look at the pictures of my family,.. my beautiful wife and my amazing three boys. But if I close my eyes long enough I can see yesterday.....

I can see my self with my best friend from high school Flynn, him and I jumping on the back of motorcycles and following the school bus around, cause there was a certain young lady I wanted to impress!!.. Oh I impressed her alright..

Then I even look closer and I see myself in my "cool shoes".. I had to have "Nike Air" these shoes cost over $150.00.. my car now isn't worth that much.. I see myself my senior year, thinking I was so cool in my "stone washed Levi's, pink shirt, white suspenders (hanging down) and my cool shoes"..

and you all thought I dress funny now..
I am getting more excited as Saturday night comes closer.. I am wondering what everyone has been up too the last twenty years.. and I wonder how many are going to fall over when they hear I am a Minister of the Gospels...

In The Hands Of a.... Genius

2008-08-11T17:49:00.000-07:00

Yes... I can't believe it myself!!! I put this "Maga-Tool Chest" together all by myself..

If you need any repairs.. CALL THE MASTER!!!

Must See..........

2008-08-05T14:39:00.000-07:00

Check out www.antiochmills.org for more information!

Samantha's Star

2008-07-30T18:34:00.000-07:00

Before I tell this story, I have to take you back to about 4 weeks ago. It was brought to my attention that there was a ministry opportunity in my own back yard that I knew nothing about,and that was because, the problem was I wasn't looking. When I finally opened my heart as well as my eyes. I saw God. During our VBS, I was given an amazing gift, I had the chance to share the love of Christ with some children and their parents, who, other wised would of just spent that week at home or at a fair. (yea, I was crazy enough to have a VBS during two county fairs).. Isn't it cool!!

Anyway, back to my story. for the past month our church has been picking them up and taking them to church and on youth trips.. (want to make adults laugh or pull their hair out, bring 27 kids to MacDonald's then the movie!!!)

Well, that brings me to tonight.
We had our regular Wednesday night Bible study, and we brought some kids back to church to have fun and do our lesson, when one little girl asked me. "What is baptism"?..

As I began to tell the story of the love of Jesus Christ to this little girl, (this is what brought tears to my eyes and they are still flowing), her eyes started to dance like falling stars!! This young girl was so excited and happy that she has a Heavenly Father who loves her that she made me feel so loved for telling her.

To be honest, I cannot put into words what this little girl made me feel like, You have to experience it yourself, how do you do that you wonder? Simple, "listen with your heart, and your eyes. Not your ears or check book." to a child.

I was told once,
"If you can make a child smile, you had a great day"!

People Can't Fly Lex.........?

2008-07-18T13:56:00.001-07:00

I like these little video clips.. They have a special message..and they are pretty sweet!!!

How Do You Tell This Story

2008-07-10T21:34:00.000-07:00

This week was our Vacation Bible School, and tomorrow is our last night. I am sitting at my home desk at half past midnight, knowing that I have to get up in about six hours, trying to figure out how do I tell this story.
This is a story of amazing victory!!. About three months ago, I planned our VBS, unaware that, I had scheduled it during the Pendleton County Fair, and the Harrison County Fair! Yea, you read it right, I planned a VBS in the middle of the two biggest attractions in our community. I was told numerous times, that I must of been "smoking crack"!

Our VBS was the biggest in years!!!.. I just don't mean numbers, I mean life changing decisions! We had to use three church buses to bring the kids in!!

I can't put into words what I experienced this week, but I know I wasn't the only one.. Our volunteers got a little "jolt from the Holy Spirit too.... and they did a GREAT JOB!!
and on a personal note, for a long time I was struggling with where I belong, I was trying so hard to be the "perfect Family Minister", you know, saving marriages, saving homes, saving the world! that I forgot that I was chosen by God himself to be a Children's Minister, I fell in love with Children's Ministry over ten years ago, and I knew that God had a plan for my life then, but just like everything else in this life, we get used to just "surviving".. Well I don't want to just survive anymore.. I want to LIVE.. and live strong..

So to all my VBS workers.. this is for you.. Thanks..

He's My Brother.....

2008-07-01T20:59:00.000-07:00

Don't forget, not everyone is at a Bar-B-Q this weekend.

This Is Who I Am.. Who Are You...Part II

2008-07-01T20:55:00.000-07:00

We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defence, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America

This Is Who I Am..Who Are You?... Part I

2008-07-01T20:43:00.000-07:00

The Declaration of Independence of the Thirteen Colonies

In CONGRESS, July 4, 1776

The unanimous Declaration of the thirteen united States of America,

When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature's God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.

Getting Bigger

2008-07-01T20:37:00.000-07:00

Just a few pics of the boys!!!

Certified!

2008-06-28T17:48:00.000-07:00

Well today,
Cathy, Stacey, and I were certified in adult, child, and infant CPR and, we also became certified in usage with the AED (Automated External Defibrillator).

Which is pretty cool because now, we at Antioch Mills can say that our “Minister of Family and Children and part of his staff our trained and certified!

Hopefully, this will give new parents visiting and regulars a peace of mind.