Porch Swing Observations: Thoughts From The Desk Of A Geek

Father’s Day: Understanding The Impact Of Fathers 2025

That’s My Job

Fathers often play a pivotal role in shaping our identities, values, and understanding of the world. They teach us important life skills, share wisdom, and provide emotional support. The bonds we form with them can be profound, influencing our relationships and how we view ourselves. When a father passes away, the void left behind can be significant. Grieving this loss is a natural and necessary process. It’s essential to acknowledge and embrace the feelings that arise, whether they be sadness, anger, or nostalgia. Each emotion reflects the love that was shared and the impact that father had on our lives.

*Celebrating Their Legacy

1. **Cherishing Memories:** Reflecting on specific memories can be a powerful way to honor our fathers. Think about moments that made you laugh, lessons learned during difficult times, or traditions that brought your family together. These memories can serve as a source of comfort and strength.

2. **Sharing Stories:** Sharing stories about your father with family and friends can keep his memory alive. It can also provide a sense of community and support, as others may relate their own experiences with loss.

3. **Creating a Tribute:** Consider creating a tribute in your father's honor. This could be a photo album, a scrapbook, or even a video compilation of memories. You might also plant a tree or a flower in his memory, symbolizing growth and the continuation of life.

4. **Acts of Kindness:** Engaging in acts of kindness or volunteering in his honor can be a meaningful way to celebrate his life. Whether it’s helping at a local charity, supporting a cause he cared about, or simply performing random acts of kindness, these actions can reflect the values he instilled in you.

*Finding Peace Through Faith

Faith can be an essential source of comfort during times of loss. Many find solace in prayer, scripture, or community worship. Here are a few biblical passages that may provide encouragement:

**Psalm 34:18 (NIV):** "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." This verse reassures us that God is with us in our grief.

**2 Corinthians 1:3-4 (NIV):** "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles." This reminds us that God provides comfort and support in our times of sorrow.

**John 14:1-3 (NIV):** "Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you?" This passage offers hope of eternal life and reunion.

Conclusion

Father's Day can be a reminder of both the joy of having had a father and the sorrow of his absence. By reflecting on the love, lessons, and memories shared, we can honor their legacy and find ways to keep their spirit alive within us. Embracing our grief while celebrating their life allows us to navigate this day with both reverence and remembrance. Ultimately, every tear shed is a testament to the love shared, and every act of remembrance is a way to say, "Thank you" for the role they played in our lives.

Lonnie

Porch Swing Observations

Electrified

On the evening of July 25, 1965, Bob Dylan took the stage at Newport Folk Festival backed by an electric band and roared into a blistering version of "Maggie's Farm," followed by his new rock hit, "Like a Rolling Stone." The audience of committed folkies and political activists who had hailed him as their acoustic prophet. Dylan’s  new sound was reacted with a mix of shock, booing, and cheers. It was the shot heard round the world Dylan’s declaration of musical independence, the end of the folk revival, and the birth of rock as the voice of a generation and one of the defining moments in twentieth century music.

In a world that often pressures us to conform to societal norms and values, the call to be set apart can feel daunting. As believers in Christ, we are called to embrace our identity as children of God, which means adopting a different mindset and lifestyle than what is often celebrated around us.

The Apostle Paul encourages us in Romans 12:2 to resist the patterns of this world. This doesn’t merely mean avoiding sinful actions; it extends to our thoughts, choices, and the influences we allow in our lives. The process of renewal begins in our minds, shaping our perspectives and guiding our actions. By focusing on God’s Word, we allow His truth to transform us, enabling us to discern His will for our lives.

Setting ourselves apart is an act of obedience and faith. It reflects our commitment to God and our desire to live according to His purpose. When we choose to stand firm in our beliefs and values, we may face challenges and isolation, but we also open ourselves to extraordinary experiences of God’s presence and guidance.

Setting yourself apart is a beautiful calling that reflects your commitment to God. It requires courage, perseverance, and a willingness to grow. As you navigate this journey, remember that God is with you, equipping you to shine brightly in a world that desperately needs His light. Embrace your identity in Christ, and let His love transform you as you aim to make a difference in the lives of those around you.

Lonnie…

The Chair And The Fishing Pole

Beyond The Lamp Post: Thoughts From The Desk Of A Geek

The Chair And The Fishing Pole

At Christmas of 1995, after dating Catherine E. Love for almost two years, I decided to “pop the question”. I knew she would be graduating from Morehead State University’s Veterinary Technician School in the spring so I thought why not surprise her at Christmas. Like a gentleman I asked for the blessing from her father Roger, then her mother Darlene, they both gave me their blessing, so on Christmas morning I asked..

During the engagement months, Darlene had refurbished a chair that I absolutely had to have. So I begged and begged until she finally gave in and gave me the chair… with the condition I make sure to take Cathy with it ..!!

The fishing pole was a surprise on its own it was a wedding gift from Darlene also she said it belonged to her “daddy” and she wanted me to have it… I never got to meet Darlene’s father, but seeing the way she loves her family and friends he must of been an amazing man and father.

Imagine a quiet lakeside, where the sun is rising, casting golden hues over the water’s surface. In this serene setting, a simple chair and a fishing pole sit side by side. The chair represents a place of rest and reflection, while the fishing pole symbolizes the act of waiting and trusting in hope.

As we sit in the chair, we are reminded to take a moment to pause in our busy lives. In our fast-paced world, we often rush from one task to another, seeking immediate results and instant gratification. However, God invites us to be still and find solace in Him. Just as we settle into the chair, we find comfort in knowing that our Heavenly Father is always present, ready to listen and guide us.

The fishing pole, on the other hand, teaches us about patience. Fishing requires a willingness to wait, to trust that the fish will come in due time. Similarly, in our spiritual lives, we are often called to wait on the Lord. Isaiah 40:31 reminds us, “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.”

Our time of waiting is not wasted; it is a time of growth, preparation, and deepening faith.

As we cast our lines into the water, we remind ourselves that God is in control. The act of fishing can be unpredictable, just like life itself. There will be days when we catch nothing, and days when we are blessed with an abundance. In both cases, we are called to trust God’s plan for us. We learn that the journey is as important as the destination and that every moment spent waiting is an opportunity to grow closer to Him.

The chair and the fishing pole serve as powerful reminders of the Christian walk. They invite us to rest in God’s presence and patiently trust His timing. As we navigate life’s waters, may we find joy in the waiting, strength in our faith, and peace in knowing that God is always with us, guiding our paths. Each day offers a new opportunity to grow closer to Him, and with every cast of our fishing pole, we can trust that He has something beautiful in store for us.

Lonnie…. — at Geeks With Grace Studios At Grace Ridge Farm.

Beyond The Lamp Post: Thoughts From The Desk Of A Geek

Homesick

As Christians, we often find ourselves caught between two worlds: the earthly home we inhabit and the heavenly home we long for. The Apostle Paul reminds us that our true citizenship is in heaven, a place where pain, sorrow, and sin will be no more. This promise ignites a longing within us a deep desire for the eternal joy and peace that comes from have a personal relationship, ane being in the presence of our Savior.

As we journey through life, it’s not uncommon to feel a sense of homesickness, a longing for something more, something that feels like home. For the Christian, this homesickness is a powerful reminder of our true identity and our eternal home in heaven.

In Philippians 3:20-21, Paul speaks to the heart of our longing by reminding us that our citizenship is in heaven. This truth should inspire in us a deep yearning for the day when we will be fully united with our Savior. The world around us can often feel disorienting and chaotic, filled with pain and sorrow. Yet, as believers, we have the hope of transformation, a glorious promise that our earthly struggles are temporary, and our future is secure in Christ.

Our homesickness for heaven can lead us to deeper faith and reliance on God. It can ignite a passion for sharing the message of hope with those around us. Just as we await the return of Christ, we can live with a sense of purpose, motivated by the promise of our eternal home.

Take a moment to close your eyes and envision your heavenly home. What does it look like to you? What feelings are present as you think about being in the presence of God? Allow this vision to inspire your faith and guide your actions in the present.

Lonnie…

Why I Enjoy Doing the Geeks with Grace Podcast

Podcasts have become a staple in our daily lives, offering a unique blend of entertainment, education, and community. Among the myriad of podcasts out there, one that holds a special place in my heart is the Geeks with Grace podcast. Here’s why I find such joy in being a part of this incredible journey.

1. Connecting with Like-Minded Individuals

One of the most rewarding aspects of hosting the Geeks with Grace podcast is the opportunity to connect with passionate individuals who share similar interests. Whether it’s fellow podcasters, guests who join us for interviews, or listeners who engage with us on social media, the sense of community is palpable. It’s inspiring to hear diverse perspectives and ideas, fostering an environment where everyone can learn and grow together.

2. Exploring a Variety of Topics

The tech world is ever-evolving, and the podcast provides a platform to explore a wide range of topics. From discussions on the latest innovations in technology to deep dives into ethical considerations surrounding geek culture, each episode is an adventure. This variety keeps me engaged and excited, as I never know what fascinating subject we’ll tackle next.

3. Learning from Guests

One of the highlights of the Geeks with Grace podcast is the opportunity to interview experts and enthusiasts from different fields. Each guest brings a wealth of knowledge and experience, and I love the chance to learn from them. Their insights not only enrich our discussions but also provide valuable information for our listeners. It’s a privilege to facilitate these conversations and share their wisdom with a broader audience.

4. Encouraging Thoughtful Dialogue

In a world filled with noise and quick opinions, I appreciate the space that the podcast provides for thoughtful dialogue. We strive to create an atmosphere where complex issues can be discussed respectfully and thoughtfully. This is especially important in the realm of technology, where ethical considerations and societal impacts often go overlooked. Engaging in these conversations encourages listeners to think critically about the world around them.

5. Creative Expression

Podcasting is a form of creative expression that allows me to explore my interests in a dynamic way. Each episode is a chance to craft a narrative, plan engaging discussions, and even experiment with different formats. This creative freedom makes the process enjoyable and fulfilling, as I can bring my unique voice and perspective to the table.

6. Building Personal Skills

Hosting a podcast has significantly contributed to my personal development. From honing my communication skills to improving my research abilities, each episode presents an opportunity to grow. I’ve learned how to engage an audience, ask compelling questions, and manage the logistics of production. These skills are invaluable, not just for podcasting but for many aspects of life.

7. Creating Lasting Impact

Perhaps the most rewarding aspect of the Geeks with Grace podcast is the impact it can have on our listeners. Hearing feedback from those who’ve found inspiration or solace in our discussions is incredibly fulfilling. It reminds me that our conversations matter and can make a difference in someone’s life, even in small ways.

Conclusion

The Geeks with Grace podcast is more than just a show; it’s a passion project that brings together a community of curious minds. Through connection, exploration, and thoughtful dialogue, I find joy in every episode we create. As we continue this journey, I look forward to the exciting topics and guests that lie ahead, and I’m grateful for the opportunity to share this experience with all of you. Here’s to many more episodes and meaningful conversations!

The Narrative of the Scientific Evidence Surrounding the Resurrection of Jesus Christ

The narrative of the scientific evidence surrounding the resurrection of Jesus Christ intertwines historical inquiry, archaeological discoveries, and analyses of psychological and sociological phenomena.

In the early days of Christianity, the resurrection was proclaimed by Jesus’ disciples as a pivotal event. This claim is documented in the New Testament, particularly in the Gospels, where multiple accounts describe encounters with the risen Christ. The consistency of these testimonies across different sources suggests that they stem from a collective experience rather than a mere fabrication.

Historians have noted the significant transformation in the disciples after Jesus’ death. Initially fearful and disheartened, they became bold proclaimers of the resurrection. This dramatic shift raises questions about what could have triggered such a profound change. Scholars argue that the only plausible explanation for their newfound courage and conviction is that they genuinely believed they had witnessed the risen Christ.

Archaeological findings further support the historical context of these events. The discovery of ancient manuscripts, such as the Dead Sea Scrolls and early Christian writings, has provided insights into the beliefs and practices of early Christians. These texts often reference the resurrection, indicating that it was a central tenet of their faith from the outset.

Moreover, psychological studies on belief systems reveal that transformative experiences can lead to significant changes in individuals and communities. The overwhelming belief in the resurrection among early Christians can be seen as a collective psychological phenomenon, where shared experiences and convictions fostered a strong community identity.

Additionally, the rapid spread of Christianity in the face of persecution suggests that the resurrection resonated deeply with people, providing hope and purpose. The willingness of early Christians to face martyrdom for their beliefs implies a conviction rooted in profound personal experiences.

While scientific inquiry may not provide definitive proof of the resurrection, the convergence of historical evidence, archaeological findings, and psychological insights creates a compelling narrative. This narrative portrays the resurrection not just as a theological claim, but as a transformative event that shaped the course of history and continues to influence millions today. Ultimately, it invites individuals to explore the profound implications of this event within the broader context of faith, hope, and the quest for meaning.

Lonnie

Our Story

Alex decided to say at Morehead State this weekend, and Landon was with his girlfriend, so after dinner Cathy wanted to watch a movie, so being the good husband that I am I let her pick. She chose the movie, “Love At First Sight.” It’s basically a story of two strangers from different countries who meet together by fate, fall in love, and get separated at the airport… and …I won’t spoil it for you. I only told what was mentioned in the trailer, so yeah, watch the movie and you will know what happens next. It has some good “love” quotes in it, some that I wished I wrote down to use for Valentine’s Day or apologies 😀. But one quote stuck with me….. “You only really know what kind of story yours is when you know the ending.” (Love At First-2024) It got me thinking about God’s plan for us “our story” and our own ending. We are reminded in scripture, more specifically 1 Peter “And when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of glory that will never fade away.” When Peter talks about a crown, he is talking about a symbol of honor. Way back in the Old Testament, God said, “Those who honor me I will honor”. In other words, the one who serves Christ well in this life will be highly honored in the presence of God for all eternity. Peter takes up this theme again in when he speaks of “the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ.” God calls all His followers, the whole flock of Christ, to share the brightness and splendor of His immediate presence for all eternity. Of course, it took the death and the resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ to open the way, but this is where the Christian life ultimately leads. This is our destiny. When God’s work in you is complete, you will be in glory, and God’s glory will be in you. It’s not just that you will be surrounded by the brightness and splendor of God’s immediate presence. Rather, the brightness and splendor of God will be reflected in us, as well. That’s why the Bible says, “When he appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is”. God will bring you though everything you face from here to there. The greatest trials of your life are passages on this journey to this eternal destiny. There is peace, because whatever the difficulties of your life, you know that this is the outcome. Think about your destiny and the destiny for all those who are in Christ Jesus. Lonnie

The Dark Side Of The Moon

From The Desk Of A Geek Dark Side Of The Moon “And God made the two great lights, the greater light to rule the day, and the lesser light to rule the night, and the stars.… And God saw that it was good” The sun and the moon are the two great lights that determine our days and mark the passage of time. Remember in the creation story that God created two lights. Genesis chapter one tells us that the greater light was to govern the day (the sun), and the lesser to govern the night (the moon). The sun provides light and from that light comes life and strength. The moon does not produce light, it only reflects the light of the sun. Therefore, in the moonlight, there is not as much brightness. You can still stumble around in the moonlight. The comparison is this; those that are walking in the light (the Son) have that light coming through them. It illuminates all that is around them and draws others to that light of Jesus inside them. Those that are merely talking about the things of the Kingdom and yet giving their first thoughts and best attention to the things of the world are merely reflectors of that light. There is no power within that reflected light to lead others away from darkness. There is no life in that light. In the same way, moonlight offers no life to the world. Notice that farmers do not require moonlight for their seeds to produce a crop. There are times in each of our lives that we talk a good game about the things of the Lord, but it is mostly nothing more than that, just talk. We are not living in the Word and the power of the light and life that comes from the Word. Ask yourself this: “Which light are others seeing from you? Is it the greater or the lesser?” Today determine not to be a reflected light that is of no value to yourself or others. Rather be a source for the greater light that will draw others to the Lord. Choose for yourself which light will govern the rest of your days. Lonnie…