Why I Am Afraid of Opossums: A Personal Reflection

Opossums are often misunderstood creatures. While many people find them intriguing or even endearing, I can't help but feel a sense of dread whenever I encounter one. My fear of opossums is not rooted in any singular traumatic event but is instead a culmination of various factors that have shaped my perception of these unique marsupials.

Let’s be honest, opossums aren't the most aesthetically pleasing animals. With their beady eyes, long snouts, and bare tails, they can appear somewhat unsettling. For someone who has a natural aversion to certain animals, the sight of an opossum can provoke an immediate sense of discomfort. Their pinkish skin and sharp teeth, which they often display when threatened, only add to this unease.

Opossums are known for their defensive tactics, which include playing dead when they feel threatened. While this may be an effective survival strategy, witnessing this behavior can be quite alarming. The first time I saw an opossum "playing possum," I thought it was genuinely sick or injured, which triggered a wave of panic. The unpredictability of their behavior, whether scurrying away or pretending to be lifeless can leave me feeling anxious in their presence.Growing up, I was often exposed to stories and media that portrayed opossums in a negative light. They were depicted as pests or harbingers of disease, reinforcing a narrative that made them seem dangerous. This cultural conditioning has played a significant role in shaping my fear, as I internalized these messages without ever questioning their validity.

While opossums are generally harmless to humans, they can carry parasites and diseases, such as leptospirosis and salmonella. The thought of encountering an opossum and potentially contracting something unpleasant is enough to make me uneasy. This fear is compounded by the fact that opossums often rummage through garbage and are associated with urban environments, making them seem like a health risk.

Opossums are nocturnal creatures, which means they are most active at night. This nocturnal lifestyle means I might unexpectedly encounter one while taking out the trash or walking at dusk. The sudden appearance of an opossum can send my heart racing, as I’m taken aback by their unexpected presence. The adrenaline rush from these surprise encounters only heightens my fear.

My fear of opossums is a blend of their appearance, behavior, cultural perceptions, health concerns, and the element of surprise. While I understand that they play an important role in the ecosystem, my instincts tell me to keep my distance. Fear, after all, is often rooted in the unknown, and for me, the opossum remains an enigmatic and unsettling creature. I may never fully overcome my fear, but acknowledging it allows me to navigate my encounters with a bit more awareness and perhaps a little less dread.

Lonnie

Finding God Through Disk Golf

On our farm, we have horses, cats, a garden and a disk golf course . I wanted to find a way to exercise, but also have fun, so I looked into disk golf and really enjoyed it, and our disk golf course has as taking off.

Disc golf, a sport that combines the precision of golf with the fun of throwing discs, offers more than just a recreational activity. It serves as a perfect metaphor for the Christian journey, filled with lessons about faith, perseverance, and community. Here’s how the elements of disc golf can mirror our spiritual walk.

*The Course of Life

Just like a disc golf course, life has its fair share of obstacles—trees, water hazards, and uneven terrain. Each hole represents different challenges we face. In the same way that we strategize our throws to navigate the course, we must also seek God’s guidance to navigate the complexities of life.

The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 3:5-6, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” When we rely on God, He helps us find the best path through our own unique courses.

*The Throw of Faith

In disc golf, each throw requires intention and focus. We must assess our position, the wind, and the distance to the basket. Similarly, our faith journey requires us to make intentional decisions based on our understanding of God’s Word. Every throw can be seen as a step of faith—sometimes we throw with confidence, while other times we may stumble. Hebrews 11:1 teaches us that “Faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.” Just as we cannot see the outcome of our throw until the disc lands, we must trust in God’s plan, even when we can’t see the end result.

*The Community of Players

Disc golf is often played in groups, fostering a sense of community and camaraderie. This mirrors the Christian life, where fellowship with other believers strengthens our faith. Just as players encourage one another on the course, we too should support and uplift each other in our spiritual journeys. In Hebrews 10:24-25, we are reminded, “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another.” The shared experience of playing together can deepen our connections and remind us of our shared purpose in Christ.

*The Importance of Perseverance

Every disc golfer knows that not every throw goes as planned. There are missed shots, unexpected turns, and sometimes, the disc may land far from the target. This unpredictability mirrors the struggles we face in faith. Yet, perseverance is key. James 1:2-4 encourages us to “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.” Just as we learn from our mistakes on the course, our spiritual growth often comes through adversity.

*The Goal: Eternal Life

Ultimately, the objective of disc golf is to reach the basket, just as our ultimate goal in life is to seek a relationship with God through Jesus Christ. Each throw brings us closer to that goal, and every challenge we overcome strengthens our resolve. In Philippians 3:14, Paul writes, “I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.” This perspective encourages us to keep striving, knowing that our efforts are not in vain.

Disc golf is more than just a game; it’s a reflection of the Christian journey. Each throw teaches us about faith, community, perseverance, and the pursuit of our ultimate goal. So, the next time you step onto the course, consider how each aspect of the game can inspire you in your walk with Christ. Embrace the journey, trust in God’s guidance, and enjoy the game!

Lonnie

And So It Begins

A Journey of Growth and Family

As summer fades into fall, the air is filled with excitement and a touch of nostalgia. For Alex, this new season marks the beginning of an incredible journey at the University of Louisville. With dreams in his heart and a backpack filled with books, he steps onto campus, ready to embrace the challenges and opportunities that await him. The vibrant atmosphere of the university, with its rich history and spirited community, promises to be a backdrop for personal growth, lifelong friendships, and unforgettable experiences.

Meanwhile, Landon is carving out a new chapter of his own at Morehead State University. Nestled in the picturesque hills of Kentucky, he’s not just a student; he’s also a new apartment dweller, relishing the independence that comes with having his own space. The thrill of decorating his apartment, hosting friends, and creating a cozy sanctuary is a testament to his growth and newfound responsibilities.

But life isn’t just about academics and apartment living. I get to wear another title that fills my heart with joy: grandfather. My two precious granddaughters, Izzy and Lilly, bring light and laughter into my life. Whether it's reading bedtime stories, playing in the park, or simply enjoying the warmth of family gatherings, I treasures every moment spent with these little ones. They remind me of the beauty of life and the importance of family bonds.

My pride extends to my son, Brady, who has embarked on his own journey of love and commitment. Now married to the wonderful Katie, they’re building a life together filled with hope, dreams, and the shared joy of family. I watch with pride as Brady navigates the responsibilities of adulthood, knowing that his mom and I raised a son who values love, family, and hard work.

As Alex and Landon embark on their respective paths, the love they share as brothers remains a strong anchor. They support each other through the trials and triumphs, celebrating each achievement and offering a listening ear during challenging times. Their bond is a reminder that family is not just about blood but about the connections and memories created over time.

In this season of change, Alex and Landon are not just focusing on their individual journeys; they’re also nurturing the roots of their family tree. With Brady and Katie having their own family, the legacy continues to grow. Each generation brings new stories, and the laughter of Izzy and Lilly will echo through their lives, weaving a rich tapestry of love and connection.

As the leaves start to turn and the world around them changes, Alex and Landon stand at the forefront of their new adventures. With the strength of family behind them, they are ready to embrace whatever comes next. Whether it's the pursuit of knowledge, the joy of new beginnings, or the simple pleasure of being together, their journey is just beginning.

Here’s to new chapters, cherished moments, and the love that binds us all together.

Lonnie

Porch Swing Observations: Thoughts From The Desk Of A Geek

Father’s Day: Understanding The Impact Of Fathers 2025

That’s My Job

Fathers often play a pivotal role in shaping our identities, values, and understanding of the world. They teach us important life skills, share wisdom, and provide emotional support. The bonds we form with them can be profound, influencing our relationships and how we view ourselves. When a father passes away, the void left behind can be significant. Grieving this loss is a natural and necessary process. It’s essential to acknowledge and embrace the feelings that arise, whether they be sadness, anger, or nostalgia. Each emotion reflects the love that was shared and the impact that father had on our lives.

*Celebrating Their Legacy

1. **Cherishing Memories:** Reflecting on specific memories can be a powerful way to honor our fathers. Think about moments that made you laugh, lessons learned during difficult times, or traditions that brought your family together. These memories can serve as a source of comfort and strength.

2. **Sharing Stories:** Sharing stories about your father with family and friends can keep his memory alive. It can also provide a sense of community and support, as others may relate their own experiences with loss.

3. **Creating a Tribute:** Consider creating a tribute in your father's honor. This could be a photo album, a scrapbook, or even a video compilation of memories. You might also plant a tree or a flower in his memory, symbolizing growth and the continuation of life.

4. **Acts of Kindness:** Engaging in acts of kindness or volunteering in his honor can be a meaningful way to celebrate his life. Whether it’s helping at a local charity, supporting a cause he cared about, or simply performing random acts of kindness, these actions can reflect the values he instilled in you.

*Finding Peace Through Faith

Faith can be an essential source of comfort during times of loss. Many find solace in prayer, scripture, or community worship. Here are a few biblical passages that may provide encouragement:

**Psalm 34:18 (NIV):** "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." This verse reassures us that God is with us in our grief.

**2 Corinthians 1:3-4 (NIV):** "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles." This reminds us that God provides comfort and support in our times of sorrow.

**John 14:1-3 (NIV):** "Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you?" This passage offers hope of eternal life and reunion.

Conclusion

Father's Day can be a reminder of both the joy of having had a father and the sorrow of his absence. By reflecting on the love, lessons, and memories shared, we can honor their legacy and find ways to keep their spirit alive within us. Embracing our grief while celebrating their life allows us to navigate this day with both reverence and remembrance. Ultimately, every tear shed is a testament to the love shared, and every act of remembrance is a way to say, "Thank you" for the role they played in our lives.

Lonnie

Porch Swing Observations

Electrified

On the evening of July 25, 1965, Bob Dylan took the stage at Newport Folk Festival backed by an electric band and roared into a blistering version of "Maggie's Farm," followed by his new rock hit, "Like a Rolling Stone." The audience of committed folkies and political activists who had hailed him as their acoustic prophet. Dylan’s  new sound was reacted with a mix of shock, booing, and cheers. It was the shot heard round the world Dylan’s declaration of musical independence, the end of the folk revival, and the birth of rock as the voice of a generation and one of the defining moments in twentieth century music.

In a world that often pressures us to conform to societal norms and values, the call to be set apart can feel daunting. As believers in Christ, we are called to embrace our identity as children of God, which means adopting a different mindset and lifestyle than what is often celebrated around us.

The Apostle Paul encourages us in Romans 12:2 to resist the patterns of this world. This doesn’t merely mean avoiding sinful actions; it extends to our thoughts, choices, and the influences we allow in our lives. The process of renewal begins in our minds, shaping our perspectives and guiding our actions. By focusing on God’s Word, we allow His truth to transform us, enabling us to discern His will for our lives.

Setting ourselves apart is an act of obedience and faith. It reflects our commitment to God and our desire to live according to His purpose. When we choose to stand firm in our beliefs and values, we may face challenges and isolation, but we also open ourselves to extraordinary experiences of God’s presence and guidance.

Setting yourself apart is a beautiful calling that reflects your commitment to God. It requires courage, perseverance, and a willingness to grow. As you navigate this journey, remember that God is with you, equipping you to shine brightly in a world that desperately needs His light. Embrace your identity in Christ, and let His love transform you as you aim to make a difference in the lives of those around you.

Lonnie…

The Chair And The Fishing Pole

Beyond The Lamp Post: Thoughts From The Desk Of A Geek

The Chair And The Fishing Pole

At Christmas of 1995, after dating Catherine E. Love for almost two years, I decided to “pop the question”. I knew she would be graduating from Morehead State University’s Veterinary Technician School in the spring so I thought why not surprise her at Christmas. Like a gentleman I asked for the blessing from her father Roger, then her mother Darlene, they both gave me their blessing, so on Christmas morning I asked..

During the engagement months, Darlene had refurbished a chair that I absolutely had to have. So I begged and begged until she finally gave in and gave me the chair… with the condition I make sure to take Cathy with it ..!!

The fishing pole was a surprise on its own it was a wedding gift from Darlene also she said it belonged to her “daddy” and she wanted me to have it… I never got to meet Darlene’s father, but seeing the way she loves her family and friends he must of been an amazing man and father.

Imagine a quiet lakeside, where the sun is rising, casting golden hues over the water’s surface. In this serene setting, a simple chair and a fishing pole sit side by side. The chair represents a place of rest and reflection, while the fishing pole symbolizes the act of waiting and trusting in hope.

As we sit in the chair, we are reminded to take a moment to pause in our busy lives. In our fast-paced world, we often rush from one task to another, seeking immediate results and instant gratification. However, God invites us to be still and find solace in Him. Just as we settle into the chair, we find comfort in knowing that our Heavenly Father is always present, ready to listen and guide us.

The fishing pole, on the other hand, teaches us about patience. Fishing requires a willingness to wait, to trust that the fish will come in due time. Similarly, in our spiritual lives, we are often called to wait on the Lord. Isaiah 40:31 reminds us, “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.”

Our time of waiting is not wasted; it is a time of growth, preparation, and deepening faith.

As we cast our lines into the water, we remind ourselves that God is in control. The act of fishing can be unpredictable, just like life itself. There will be days when we catch nothing, and days when we are blessed with an abundance. In both cases, we are called to trust God’s plan for us. We learn that the journey is as important as the destination and that every moment spent waiting is an opportunity to grow closer to Him.

The chair and the fishing pole serve as powerful reminders of the Christian walk. They invite us to rest in God’s presence and patiently trust His timing. As we navigate life’s waters, may we find joy in the waiting, strength in our faith, and peace in knowing that God is always with us, guiding our paths. Each day offers a new opportunity to grow closer to Him, and with every cast of our fishing pole, we can trust that He has something beautiful in store for us.

Lonnie…. — at Geeks With Grace Studios At Grace Ridge Farm.

Beyond The Lamp Post: Thoughts From The Desk Of A Geek

Homesick

As Christians, we often find ourselves caught between two worlds: the earthly home we inhabit and the heavenly home we long for. The Apostle Paul reminds us that our true citizenship is in heaven, a place where pain, sorrow, and sin will be no more. This promise ignites a longing within us a deep desire for the eternal joy and peace that comes from have a personal relationship, ane being in the presence of our Savior.

As we journey through life, it’s not uncommon to feel a sense of homesickness, a longing for something more, something that feels like home. For the Christian, this homesickness is a powerful reminder of our true identity and our eternal home in heaven.

In Philippians 3:20-21, Paul speaks to the heart of our longing by reminding us that our citizenship is in heaven. This truth should inspire in us a deep yearning for the day when we will be fully united with our Savior. The world around us can often feel disorienting and chaotic, filled with pain and sorrow. Yet, as believers, we have the hope of transformation, a glorious promise that our earthly struggles are temporary, and our future is secure in Christ.

Our homesickness for heaven can lead us to deeper faith and reliance on God. It can ignite a passion for sharing the message of hope with those around us. Just as we await the return of Christ, we can live with a sense of purpose, motivated by the promise of our eternal home.

Take a moment to close your eyes and envision your heavenly home. What does it look like to you? What feelings are present as you think about being in the presence of God? Allow this vision to inspire your faith and guide your actions in the present.

Lonnie…